Explaining autism is important

Explaining autism is important
I’m going to draw on something important here – my own experiences. So, I was diagnosed at the age of 14, in 2007. And no one explained it to me. Well, people tried, maybe. Just not very well. It wasn’t explained as a disability. It wasn’t explained as something that impacted me in every part of my life. It was explained as “well this is why you have trouble talking to people and with social interactions and why you have some of these behaviors.” There wasn’t anything about sensory issues or effects it had on executive functioning or how it flavored my every experience.
Maybe it was difficult to see how to explain it to a teenager who was also dealing with some personal issues and hitting high school. Mostly, I think the people explaining it to me didn’t see it as a disability. My 504 plan in high school (a step below an IEP), from what I knew of it, sought to ease my passage through high school. And it did, enough that I didn’t have to self advocate very much or recognize that I had a disability. I just thought “Wow, I suck with people, this must be why,” and left it at that.
No one explained a social model of disability to me that would have helped me understand the impact it had on me. One of my acquaintances looked up my diagnosis on Wikipedia, and that was how I understood it for the next several years. I already knew I had ADHD, so maybe I was just used to being told I had this and that.
It’s not enough to tell someone their diagnosis and expect them to find out everything on their own. I mean, Wikipedia was the extent of knowledge found on my own. Some people may call that handholding, but I call it decency and saving someone a lot of pain and trying to find themselves. As it was, I didn’t figure out anything about autism until I went to college and met a couple more autistic people, one of whom was already into neurodiversity.
I’ll say that again:
It’s not enough to tell someone their diagnosis and expect them to find out everything on their own.
Related:
Telling people they’re autistic / autism is a disability
Social model

Advertisements

One thought on “Explaining autism is important

Leave a Reply

Please log in using one of these methods to post your comment:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s